Friday, January 8, 2010

2010

there is nothing special about 2010.
at the moment. i still don't think is a good year.
hope things get better as time goes on.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

人的一生会遇到四个人

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程,每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人,
第三个是最爱你的人,
第四个是共度一生的人..
首先会遇到你最爱的人,然後体会到爱的感觉;
因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人;
当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的,
也才会找到最适合你,能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的,在现实生活中,这三个人通常不是同一个人;
你最爱的,往往没有选择你;
最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;
而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你,会是别人生命中的第几个人呢?
没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你,
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了,
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你;
同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你,
你要问自己还爱不爱他,
如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开;
如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐,
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止,
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了,
而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢?
爱不是占有,
你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里,
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说,你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有,
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆,
如果你真爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好,也爱他的坏:
爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,
绝不能因为爱他,就希望他变成自己所希望的样子,
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的,
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你;
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得;
分开是一种必然的考验,
如果你们感情不够稳固,只好认输,
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候,
最喜欢叫对方发誓,许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓,
就是因为我们不相信对方,我们根本不相信情人,
而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际:
海枯石烂、地老天荒,都不能改变我对你的爱!
明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒;
就算会,也活不到那时候。
许下诺言的时候千万注意,不要许下可以实现的诺言,
最好是承诺做不到的事,
反正做不到的,随便说说也不要紧,
请记住:”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
在爱情里,说的是一套,做的是另一套;
讲的人不相信,听的人也不相信。
你呢?找到了第几个?
茫茫人海中,你遇见了谁?谁又遇见了你?

Friday, January 1, 2010

after so long
i still care a lot

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

brand new day

every morning wake up is a brand new day.
is the time to change yourself to be a better one.
after each night of thinking what you done right or wrong on the day.
so now is a brand new day for me.
hope everything nice today.
cheeers.

Friday, November 27, 2009

long lost mario

it since months since i last post here...
dun feel like deleting this blog...
no matter how there is memories here...
so trying to updating it back....

is the beginning of holiday looo...
dun wana waste the holiday like last year..
so will try to find job... heheh

and try to spend time with friends...
since quite a lot of them leaving malaysia...
hahaha...

how i wish i got money then i can fly together with them....
no matter how is another type of experience ma...
but then too bad lor
so dun think =)

Thursday, August 13, 2009

life is so unexpected

received shocking news from my dad today...
i oso stunt for a while...
then he ask me eat dinner...
i jus tell him i going out and he ask not coming back late...

the next moment..
i only walk into my room...
sitting infront of the com...
thinking of dono wat....
haiz........

Sunday, August 2, 2009

what to say leh? =)

a such nice day.... after nice sleep... first thing wake up in the morning....


oh gosh... the such SS person who think that we will miss her left such a notice on my com.....

then play facebook and realized that she came home... msg her... and said thrs breakfast downstairs.... already told her can settle ourself~~


ini panggil love breakfast ar??? =)


haha... u buy oh... sure la we must enjoy... some more purposely send home for us =D

finally the last message that specifically wrote to CHEW HUI SAN~~


deng~~~ hehe